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Jul 08

Be a modern guy

Well gents,

There’s plenty of dating advice out there for men however it’s seldom you come across advice that you can actually out to some good use.

A lot of advice helps men when they IN a relationship and not how to get into one.

Some AWESOME Dating Advice is on it’s way …

Dating Advice Tip #1

Clean breath is important, don’t overlook this! The last thing a girl wants to do is be around a guys with zombie breath let a lone kiss somebody with this stench. Good oral hygiene is important and CRITICAL when it comes to first dates and going out ‘on the town’ for search of the lucky girl.

Dating Advice Tip #2

Dress well and don’t look like a dag/bum/forrest gump.

Women want men who dress sharp. So make sure the side burns are in check, you’re clean shaven, you have sharp cologne, clean clothing/shoes.

You will notice a lot more people paying attention to you, you’ll also get more respect. As the saying goes “a man cannot expect respect if he doesn’t respect himself”

Dress to stand out always. Don’t dress like a gigolo or ‘player’ as this has a very negative connotation to it. You should dress pimp as pimp is FUN.

Velvet jackets, snake boots, spikes hair, fake tattoos, bling bling.

Dating Advice Tip #3

Smile. This is overlooked and is important when it comes to dating advice.

If you look like you’re out to have fun and enjoy yourself then people especially women will notice this and would want to join in. They’ll prefer to hang around a guy that is the party than somebody that comes across he’s trying to “pick up” or get it on with her : )

This comes later …

The most successful guys I’ve seen with women look like they’ve known them for ages, like they’re long lost friends, they’re cracking jokes, smiling, playful hitting them and enjoying themselves.

His mindset is “he’s the party” and he’s inviting them into his reality. He’s the prize and they’re joining in with him.

If they do something which disrupts “his” party ie. Gives him challenges, acts all princessy, brings the energy down then no matter how hot she looks she’s OUT.

Always be willing to walk away from anything. This principle applies in business especially but is as important in relationships and dating.

By being able to walk away you have and hold onto the power.

Dating Advice Tip #4

Be prepared.

Some good advice on dating is be prepared with your conversation starter and a back up story or routine.

The last thing you want to do it blow the set open, have them laughing at everything you say and running out of things to say …then what do you say?

“Ummm ….It was great meeting you girls … I have to go …”

No. This is the worst thing to do. Stay in there as long as you can and push the interaction as far as you can.

After your conversation starter have a prepared story to tell about anything. It doesn’t have to be related to your conversation starter just spit out whatever

If you keep talking they’ll probably stay, if you stop talking they’ll def leave.

Dating Advice Tip #5

Have great body language. Learn to hold interactions with strong powerful body language.

-Keep your shoulders back

-Chest high, groin out, stomach in

-Smile

-Touch the girls as much as you can

-Deepen your voice

-Don’t move or talk to quickly

-Don’t give the girls too much attention early on in the interaction

If it helps you should go to the gym. Not only will you feel more empowered with good body language you’ll also get more IOIs and women can approach you sometimes (don’t rely on this though but sometimes it happens)

Dating Advice Tip #6

The best advice I can give is to go out there and do it. The more you try and test in the ‘real word;’ the better you’ll become and the more proficient you’ll get.

After awhile you’ll start seeing consistent results after approaching so many women. You’ll collect 3-4 phone numbers on a single day or night. (assuming you approach at least 3-4 women that is)